Frequently Asked Questions
How do you ensure complete confidentiality?
Everything shared here is end-to-end encrypted. No third parties, no storage on external servers.
I don't keep transcripts, recordings, or notes. Once our three days end, the thread is deleted entirely. Nothing is archived or stored. If legally compelled to provide information, I cannot share what I don't possess. Your privacy is protected by design, not just by policy. GDPR compliant.
How is payment processed?
Payment is processed securely through Stripe. Your financial information never passes through me directly, and I don't have access to your full payment details. PCI DSS Certified.
Can I really be anonymous?
If you choose complete anonymity, you can use a pseudonym, a temporary email, and communicate without ever revealing your identity. No one will ever know you were here.
What makes you qualified for this work?
My work is grounded in both formal training and real experience. I studied psychology, communication, and diplomacy, and have spent years working privately with men in unconventional settings.
I understand psychological resilience, attachment dynamics, and when something requires clinical support versus presence. My work is grounded in both formal training and real work experience.
How is this different from therapy or coaching?
Therapy works to diagnose, treat, and resolve. Coaching focuses on goals, strategies, and improvement.
This is neither. I don't analyze your patterns or push you toward outcomes. I'm not here to fix, advise, or guide you to a better version of yourself.
You don't leave here "better." You leave here seen.
Is this space only for men struggling emotionally?
No. This space is for any man who wants a private, judgment-free place to reflect, speak, or just breathe. Whether you’re dealing with something heavy or simply looking for a deeper kind of conversation, you’re welcome here. You don’t need to be in crisis, curiosity is enough.
Why 3 days instead of just one session?
Most hour-long sessions ask you to compress yourself into that window.
Trust doesn't form in an hour. Neither does honesty.
Three days gives you time to speak on your own terms, at your own pace. You don't need to have it all figured out before you begin. You can return when something surfaces: middle of the night, the next day, whenever it's real.
How quickly will you respond?
I respond throughout the day, often within minutes when the thread is active. Sometimes in real time.
My general window is 9 a.m.–9 p.m. CET.
You can write anytime, messages sent outside those hours are answered the following morning.
The thread never closes.
Can I get a refund if it's not for me?
No refunds. The thread opens within hours of payment, and the space is held for you from that moment. If you choose to continue afterward, your investment is credited toward your first month.
What if I need to stop early?
You can pause or stop at any time. Life changes, and I understand that.
If you need to step away, I can hold your remaining time and start again later.
Can I talk about anything?
Yes. You can bring whatever feels true to you.
This space isn’t about saying the right thing, it’s about being honest.
Whatever comes up, we stay with it.
What happens after the 3 days?
The three days stand complete on their own.
At the end, you’ll receive a written reflection: a quiet summary of what we explored, what surfaced, and what may still need your attention.
If you choose to continue, we’ll decide together what kind of tailored experience fits best for you.